New York, the United States

Dating sites in New York, New York: check first, then sign up

Services listed for readers in the United States, plus practical tips for meeting people from New York safely.

Single in the US? Check first, then pick a service

Compare the services listed for the United States, see what each one costs to try and how to leave, then register where you feel comfortable.

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Services listed for readers in the United States, near New York

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Meeting someone from New York: safer first dates

Public places

Pick somewhere busy and well lit, such as Bryant Park and Central Park. Avoid private addresses on a first meeting.

Areas people mention

Areas such as Manhattan, Brooklyn and Queens are well known in New York. Choose one you know, so you can leave easily if you feel uneasy. Getting home is easier if you know the options, such as the subway.

Before you go

Video chat first, tell a friend your plans and share your live location with them. Never send money to someone you have not met.

Spotting fake profiles

Be careful with profiles that rush to another app, ask for money or avoid a video call. Read the guide.

Four checks before you register

1. Who runs it

Look for a company name, country and contact address.

2. What it costs

Prices and trial terms should be visible before payment.

3. How to leave

Find the cancel steps and refund policy first.

4. Profile policy

Read what the terms say about fictional or automated profiles.

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Questions about dating in New York

Are these dating sites available in New York?

The services below are listed for readers in the United States. We cannot confirm how many members each one has in New York, so check the site and its sign-up page before you pay.

Where is a good place for a first meeting in New York?

Choose a busy public place in daylight or early evening, for example Bryant Park and Central Park. Tell a friend where you are going and arrange your own way home.

How do I check a dating site before I register in New York?

Look for the company name and address, clear prices, the cancellation steps and what the terms say about profiles. Our checklist covers all of it.